So you’ve done the hard part. You’ve successfully gotten a women away from the bar, back to your apartment, up to your room, and into your bed. Game over, right?
Most women at this point will not give it up without at least some resistance.
There could be many underlying reasons, but basically she doesn’t want you to think she is a slut because she gave it up too easy. Which is why it is extremely important never to be judgmental about sex–> if you want to get laid crazy amounts, that is.
Factors such as time spent together, how much she knows you, how horny she is will play a huge role, unless you know this tactic.
The freeze out. The freeze out is not a new concept, in fact it has mentioned by many a player over the years. And it works as such: Girl says you two aren’t having sex. You say “ok” and stop hooking up with her.
Haha, ok so there is a bit more but the concept I want to convey is indifference, you cannot care if you two sleep together, you have to make it known to her that it is not a big deal if you don’t have sex that night. The idea being that she has always wanted to have sex and wanted to put up token resistance for a number of reasons, none of which matter, so that we would confess our undying love and beg her to give it up.
We are men. And we do not beg.
We act as if.
We act as if we get laid so much it doesn’t matter if this one random girl wants to fuck us or not!
So she says we aren’t sleeping together, and we go check our email, or watch tv, or fake falling asleep. And when she reingages because you’ve gotten her so fired up, and then taken it away, well lets just say she won’t put up that fake front again. And even if she does.
Rinse and Repeat.
Just say OK again and start to fall asleep.
You actually have to not care if you don’t have sex. Never be judgemental, annoyed, angry, whatever. Chill out. Its just sex. Read my blog more and you will get plenty.
Women think guys are horny as hell and will stop at nothing to get them into bed… and when we do this, and then act indifferent at the last minute, it drives them crazy!
Because now they aren’t fighting you, they are fighting themselves, and you are agreeing with them. Works like a charm.
Another tactic is for YOU to suggest
“no we aren’t sleeping together, i don’t know you well enough.”
By preempting what she would have said, and saying it yourself, you gain the upper hand.
You could say something along the lines of “sex isn’t on my agenda tonight, i just want to get to know you better, and i know it will happen eventually”
Now go out there and be a closer.